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The real reason you’re so tired (and it’s not the work)
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You’ve tried everything.
Blocking your calendar.
Batching your tasks.
Using that productivity app everyone swears by.
But no matter what you do, the feeling creeps back in:
You’re exhausted.
Mentally, emotionally, even physically.
But here’s the thing.
It’s not the work that’s draining you.
It’s the switching.
You wake up thinking about Client A.
Spend the morning revising Client B’s pitch.
Jump into a midday call with Client C.
And end the day answering DMs from someone who’s not even paying you (yet).
That’s four different mental arenas in one day — sometimes in one hour.
This isn’t multitasking.
This is context-slamming.
And it’s wrecking your clarity.
Your brain hates switching gears
Every time you move from one project to another — especially across different clients, platforms, or brain states — your brain pays a toll.
This toll shows up as:
Decision fatigue
Forgetfulness
That vague buzzing sense of dread
The feeling of being busy all day without getting anything meaningful done
This is cognitive overhead.
It’s invisible.
It’s constant.
And it’s the main reason your to-do list feels like a treadmill instead of a finish line.
You don’t need more time — you need one mind
Enter: The One-Mind Method™
A low-overhead structure to reclaim your energy and focus without blowing up your business.
The One-Mind Method: A focus-first way to run your week
This isn’t about rigid routines or time-blocking your soul away.
It’s about grouping the right work together to reduce mental thrash.
1. Assign each day a mental mode
Instead of juggling 5 modes per day, pick one:
Creative (deep work, concepting, design, writing)
Collaborative (calls, co-working, live reviews)
Admin (invoicing, emails, Zapier black magic)
You can still work across clients — just don’t mix mental gears.
2. Bundle your clients, not your chaos
Assign clients to different days or half-days.
Example:
Monday = Client A
Tuesday AM = Client B, PM = Creative Time
Wednesday = Admin / Buffer
Thursday = Client C
Friday = You
The goal is to minimise mental tab-switching.
(Actual tabs too, let’s be honest.)
3. End your day before your energy does
Give yourself closure.
Wrap up tasks before they wrap you up.
Write tomorrow’s top 3.
Close the loop. Log off.
Ending your workday clearly helps your brain reset.
Which is the whole point of this.
Less switching = more clarity
You don’t need a dopamine detox.
You don’t need to delete all your apps.
You just need a business that respects your brain’s actual limits.
Because freelancing shouldn’t feel like mental whiplash.
It should feel like freedom.
And freedom starts with focus.
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